On Friday when they left I took Max, our 3-legged Mastiff/Anatolian Shepherd mix, for a walk. He is affectionately known as Big Poppa. Nothing holds that guy down. Not being neutered, not being an amputee, not losing his adopted dad, not even when the kids go to their father's house. The only thing I've seen him do is react when Jason isn't home. For whatever reason, the dog adores Jason. Caro thinks it's funny in that "Well, isn't that interesting." kind of way that Max searches for him. If you say Caro or Jason (which by the way, I refer to Jason as Caro mio, which is Italian for My Darling) Max starts to huff and whine and wander the house looking for him. When Jason is gone Max sleeps with Jason's shirts or pants...whichever happens to fall out of the laundry basket when I'm doing laundry...but, true story... Max will take it to a corner, mush it together and lay on it and just look at me... as if to say, "When is my home slice gonna be home?" He really is a man's dog... Tinkerbell, MY Great Dane...I have to capitalize the MY because I have to claim someone's loyalty.... the cat, Panda, adores K.K., Max lives for Preston and Jason, but I have to have a best friend too....so I'm not sharing the affection of my almost 5 yr old princess. I said it, I'm jealous. I admit I won't share her love. I can admit I've been a bit of a two year old here...but she's mine...all mine and I'm not gonna share!!!
Anyway, Friday....I was so out of sorts when the kids left that in a bit of a light drizzle I took him out for a walk and ran out of treats...we stopped by the house to pick some up and as I was walking back up, Jason pulls up with his buddy. Never, ever, have I been so glad and grateful to see a dirty, wet, tired soldier come up my driveway. This is the second time the man has had to go and this is the second time I'm so relieved and at peace for him to be home again. For those of you who don't know, I was a military spouse for almost 12 years of my life....he was alright...we were best friends...but Jason is on an entirely different level. The connection I feel to him is so deep that I don't sleep, I barely remember to eat, and then I cook and cook and cook...well last week, to be fair, I baked and baked and baked. Don't judge....I didn't eat all the food I baked....I left the banana bread and some of the pineapple upside down cake for Caro mio.
But for dinner I made him this beer battered pan fried chicken with a creamy chicken and mushroom gravy and some mixed vegetables boiled in beef broth and seasoned just right....so here's the recipe, the instructions...and the pics....cause I know we all live for pics....yes?
Recipe: Beer Battered Pan Fried Chicken with Mixed Veg
Ingredients:
Chicken breasts (cleaned and trimmed of fat)
2 c flour
1 tsp rosemary
1 tsp minced garlic
1 tsp black pepper
1 tsp white pepper
1 tsp cayenne pepper
1 tsp salt
1 tsp herbs de provence
1 tsp basil
1 tsp paprika
1 tsp baking soda
2 bottles of beer (I had corona so I used corona)
2 eggs for dredging
1 skillet filled with some melted crisco and sizzling, baby....make it hot!
Steps:
- Let the chicken marinade in the beer for 30 min in a ziploc bag or you can boil the chicken in beer to the point of almost being done..approx 10 min on a high boil.
- Combine all dry ingredients
- Crack the eggs open and whisk them together
- Dip the chicken in the eggs, dredge in flour station and gently....GENTLY place in the hot skillet...nothing hurts worse than a grease burn...trust me.
- Allow to fry until done...I always slice a bit in the middle to see if juice runs clear.
- Dry on paper towel and place in the oven at 250 to keep warm.
Vegetables:
So, here's the skinny on the veg...we love 'em...LOVE THEM!!! So we eat a ton of wild veg. Asparagus, artichoke, peppers, onions, etc. But one thing is for sure, if they are boiled mixed veg you only need two amazing additions to make the flavor POP!
Ingredients:
1/2 of 32 oz of beef broth
however much of the Normandy Blend Bird's eye veg that you want
Nature's seasoning to taste
Steps:
- Boil the broth until bubbling...this is called a hard boil
- Add the amount of veg you'd like
- Boil for 10 min or so until veg is as tender as you desire
- Drain in colander
- Sprinkle nature's seasonings over the veg, stir and plate
Alternative to boiling is steaming....which I ADORE!!! Truly, if you have a steamer, put the beef broth in the place of the water, steam those vegetables to submission, sprinkle the seasoning on there and enjoy!
Here's your pics....and the best part...this took under an hour for prep and cooking time!
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Doesn't that look yummy? |
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here's your close up |
What you need to understand is that I have always enjoyed cooking...but with Caro it's a whole new adventure. The sounds of approval when the aroma wafts out of our sunshine yellow kitchen make me smile, the look of pure pleasure at a plate of food being handed to him is like Christmas for me. It's better than any present I could ever receive....true story, the way to my heart is through kitchen gear....a deluxe trip to the supermarket...or a surprise visit to a specialty deli. Nothing makes me happier these days than the ability to cook for the man who holds my heart in the palm of his hands. I stopped cooking for a long time after I left my marriage and it wasn't until Jason showed up in my life almost eight months ago. I cannot believe it has been eight months with Jason in my life. Sharing his peace with me. I've never really had the desire to have anyone in my kitchen. Then he walked in one day and started cooking with me. Life has not been the same since. We share details, large and small. We share a world that we have created together that feels so large and endless with possibilities and yet so small and intimate with just us and all of our kids...the two and four legged ones. We share a common mindset that allows us the ability to figure it out, fight it out, and get it wrong and make it right. In a hundred years...when my grandchildren's children talk about what love is and the history of our family...they will speak of what I share with Caro mio. And when they ask me how we did it I will be able to smile, with peace in my heart and say..."I waited my whole life for a love like his and to earn it we cooked our way through every situation." And when they wait for my explanation I will tell them that the hearth is the heart of a home and it can heal a wounded heart, a ravaged spirit, and create a love so deep, so wide that time stills and all you can feel is warm and full from it.
Have a great week and I look forward to this week's postings.
Be well, Be blessed, Be loved....Eat well!
-M-